Nos Valeurs

Our Values

At Spit It Out , we believe that selling fetish items isn't enough. We're not just a store: we're a place of affirmation , a space for sharing , and an act of activism in its own right.

Radical Kindness

Our first pillar is kindness . Not the kind that remains on the surface, but the kind that is lived, built, and cultivated. Every person who walks through our door—physical or virtual—deserves to be welcomed with respect, without judgment, and with attention. Whether you're newbie, experienced, curious, or simply looking for connection, you are legitimate.

Queer Visibility

We believe in the power of visibility . Being an openly queer fetish shop in the heart of Brussels isn't neutral: it's a political gesture. It's a loud and clear statement that our desires, our bodies, our practices have a right to exist. And that it's time to put an end to shame.

Real inclusion

Fetish isn't synonymous with one body, one gender, or one orientation. We are committed to inclusive representation of all LGBTQIA+ identities. This is reflected in our choice of products, sizes, models, and, above all, in our active listening to your needs.

Community first

Spit It Out was born out of a need for connection . In the midst of a pandemic, we felt the cruel lack of human contact, of spaces to meet, discuss, and open up. Today, we still carry this vocation: to be a community hub , an anchor, a place where we can be ourselves, without filters.

Freedom to be, to desire, to play

Fetish is a form of expression, a joy of the body, a play with codes. We defend a free, joyful, recorded, and assumed sexuality . Wearing latex, leather, a harness or a hood is not just a style: it is a way of telling the world who we are, with pride.


Spit It Out is all of these things: a shop, a refuge, a voice. And if you share these values, you're already one of us.

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